Today…was an adventure — an adventure that has reminded me attitude is everything.
An old childhood friend (more like a sister) and I met up to go to the Local Natives concert! They have not played a show in Denver for 4 years! I have been waiting for this! Maria was 50 minutes late to when she was supposed to be at my house. I wasn’t too worried about it, though. We finally got to the venue. As we were driving I was telling her all about how I always get tickets in Denver, sort of as if I was nonchalantly accepting the fact it would happen again tonight. Reached the line at last…and then suddenly Maria realized she forgot her ID as she frantically searched her bag! I was just laughing. She kept saying how bad she felt about being late and then not being able to get in to the venue and how upset that could make someone. She was right, that could totally make someone upset; if that someone didn’t have their values lined up. Sure, you could have a concert going buddie that is on time and has their ID ready… but that’s boring. I mean, why not change it up? We were only missing the opener at that point.
I say ONLY, but once she got her roommate to send a picture of her passport in order to be admitted, we caught the last few songs of Moses Sumney and he was absolutely amazing… Amazing. I have never heard nor seen anything like him and highly recommend giving a listen! As far as the Local Natives… WOW! We had an excellent view! They were phenomenal live! He even crowd surfed while he sang Sun Hands. It was a great vibe. Just listen to Sun Hands while imaging jumping up and down with joy and your hands raised towards the sky. I really can’t even articulate myself properly about it. I was left speechless after that show! So much harmony and happiness 🙂 They even played a live cover from one of Johny Cash’s unreleased albums in the 80’s. It was purely amazing.
The first song played for the encore was Colombia, which was prefaced with “this song means the world to me,” and boy did it mean the world to me, too. The lyrics that really stood out were “Every night I ask myself, am I loving enough, am I loving enough, am I loving enough? And every night I ask myself, am I giving enough?…”
Those lyrics speak the truth that has been very present in my life recently. If you follow my blog and have read the previous post “Self Tree Strategy,” I’m about to talk about it again.
So, we were walking back to my car… only to discover… it wasn’t there. Ha ha ha. I was really laughing, because part of me knew it would get towed while still hopeful enough that it wouldn’t. It’s not like it was illegally parked, though! Anyways, I was surprisingly not upset (or maybe that wasn’t a surprise). It was just okay. I mean, we could have walked back to my car and went home… or we could have gotten it towed and had to go on an adventure to get it back while meeting interesting people along the way! I love when “bad” things happen to me because it keeps my life so interesting. My $30 night quickly turned into a $300 night. What was I going to do with my tax return anyways… I was thinking about how our attitudes affect other people. I could have been upset about it, causing Maria to have a less fun time. Instead, I pointed out all of the positive things and called it an adventure rather than negative night, making it all the more memorable. Whenever things like this happen, you always look back on them and laugh. Why not laugh before having to look back on it?
While we waited to go retrieve my car, we met a few people. Two came up and talked to us, while we went and talked to one. The two that came up were a bit sketchy. First, a guy came up and spelt out the word OGDEN asking where the street was. It was just one block away so I pointed to it for him. He seemed unsatisfied with our answer and laughed saying he knew he was headed in the right direction. We didn’t think anything of it until he didn’t go the right direction and stopped to talk to another girl sitting on the curb. Is spelling out the street name you are by a code for drugs or underground prostitution? If you actually tell them where the street is, you don’t understand and aren’t interested? This could very well be a thing. We were down in “the pit” after all. This homeless lady I met once told me that area in Denver is called the pit, and is full of methamphetamine addiction and underground prostitution.
The second guy actually came up to us while we were talking to the girl I initiated a conversation with. I saw him creeping up from a distance. He slowly kept approaching and I saw him from the corner of my eye. He was very evidently on drugs. At last he reached us and asked, “hey do you guys got any L?” I had no idea what that was (which is probably good if I don’t know street names for drugs… I’m not a drug addict in case my mom is reading this). I said “no, sorry” to the guy and then turned back to talk to the other girl. I suppose that was rude but he kind of gave me the creeps and I could tell the other girls I was with were uncomfortable. Moving on! The whole night while we were just out there alone I was surprised that I did not feel an ounce of fear. Everything was positive because you can make it positive!
The girl we met, Bethany, was alone as she seemed to be waiting. I asked how her night was going and she told us about how she made it to the Ogden and Filmore in the same night by being an impulsive person. I ended up telling her about how we should be more like trees and love people as much as trees give off oxygen, never doubting how much we can grow, and she seemed to be really happy to be talking to us and inspired by that idea. She even consented to having me take her picture for the #selftreestrategy. The point behind this idea is to eliminate our selfie obsessed culture by instead taking a picture of someone whom you would have otherwise ignored, after talking to them enough to learn something about their day, passion, or life for them to say it’s okay. Besides what I’ve already told you about Bethany’s day, she has passion for music and running.
My phone was running on 3% when I took this picture. I realized just how dependent I am on my cell phone, it’s sad. I kept thinking that if my phone were to die, I couldn’t call the towing company, I couldn’t call anyone for help, I couldn’t GPS my way there or home, I couldn’t Instagram Bethany, I couldn’t tell what time it was…
Does my life really depend on the thing? No. While it helps tremendously, it’s completely unnecessary. Everything works out in the end, just as it did tonight. The guy at the towing company was super nice and humorous. His name was Ron, and he acted like he was going to give me a discounted charge, but his boss was right there. He said, “Oh you’re the sweet girl I talked to on the phone!” I didn’t think I was that sweet but I guess you must get a lot of angry phone calls when working at a towing company… I didn’t end up getting a discount, but I got my car…which Ron called Betsy. I guess it’s no longer “Yolanda the Honda” it’s Betsy.
I’d say it was a successful Saturday night. It wasn’t boring, that’s for sure. I can’t wait to go out tomorrow night with Maria to see The Bombay Bicycle Club! I am not as in love with them, but I’m sure it’ll be a good show. Just hopefully we don’t get towed and/or inquired about drugs and prostitution.
…and the night ends with, “your mom is still super cute hahaha can I raid your pantry.”
To sum it up. Our attitudes affect those around us and we should keep that in mind before we become upset about something so small in the long run. I just had the privilege of going to a concert venue with my own leisure time to witness a live musician that I love. I had shoes on my feet and dinner in my belly. I had to pay a ridiculous charge to get my car back, but those green pieces of paper are not my wealth. My wealth was in the time spent and memories made with Maria. We are both pretty spontaneous, impulsive people when it comes to buying just one more concert ticket when we know we shouldn’t (that’s how we ended up going to them back to back in the same weekend). But if you think about it, money comes and goes. We’re in college and our time is more valuable than anything else we can spend.
How are you spending yours?